You’ve probably heard about the so-called “male G-spot” –– the prostate –– and its status as one of the body’s numerous erogenous zones. That is, it’s part of the body that can cause sexual arousal upon stimulation.
You heard that right: there’s more than one way to achieve an orgasm, and it doesn’t have to involve stimulating your penis.
You can also achieve an orgasm by stimulating the male G-spot through your rectum’s walls using a sex toy just as well.
In fact, many men––straight or otherwise––have noted that massaging their prostate produces an intense, even more, pleasurable orgasm than the usual orgasm.
Let’s find out more about the male G-spot below.
What is the male G-spot?
The prostate is a gland located between your penis and your anus, just right under the bladder. It’s about the size of a walnut and belongs to the male reproductive system. The prostate is responsible for producing ejaculate fluid when you orgasm and helps expel the liquid it produces upon ejaculation.
You can find the prostate by inserting a finger inside your rectum –– that’s how you find the male G-spot. And while there isn’t an exact medical definition of the male G-spot, it’s best described as a sensitive section on your prostate that you can feel when you push against the rectum’s walls. It feels like a walnut-sized lump when you do so.
This round piece of tissue is thought to possess a whole bunch of nerve endings that can be stimulated to create intense, pleasurable sexual sensations. Scientists aren’t exactly sure why stimulating the prostate produces intense ecstasy, but it is thought that it is caused by the nerve endings that are located right around the surface of the prostate, while others believe it is the stimulation of the prostate’s nerves itself.
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Where can you find the male G-spot?
The male G-spot can be found several inches inside the rectum. If you reach between your legs and insert a finger inside your anus, you can touch it by curling your finger on the front side of your body.
You can also stimulate the prostate by stimulating your taint (also known as the perineum), or the area right between your anus and your scrotum. The prostate is located above the perineum.
How is the male G-spot stimulated?
You can stimulate your G-spot by engaging in solo anal play while masturbating, or you can have a partner stimulate it for you. Here are some ways you can stimulate your male G-spot for the best results.
Relieve yourself and take a restroom break before starting
Stimulating the prostate can make you feel like you need to urinate or defecate. It can also trigger these sensations at the drop of a hat sometimes. Taking a bathroom break before playing will greatly reduce the likelihood of an untimely accident happening.
Ask for permission beforehand
Not everyone is interested in having their G-spot stimulated. And even if some do, many prefer to have some sort of foreplay such as massaging their taint before they’re ready for anything to enter their rectum. Ask for permission before playing.
Be prepared and bring the necessary toys
Sex toys like butt plugs, vibrators, or prostate-stimulating devices can help stimulate your own prostate when playing solo or when playing with a partner. Don’t forget the lube, even if you plan to use just your fingers. Nitrile or latex gloves are your best friend in this scenario since they can prevent infections caused by dirty hands or fingernails –– apart from preventing you or your partner from touching fecal matter unless you’ve thoroughly cleaned out your rectum beforehand. Play safe and avoid doing anything that can make someone ill.
Cut your fingernails
You don’t want any fingernails around if you plan to put any of your digits inside an anus. Clean your hands, trim your fingernails and file them to avoid abrasions, cuts, or infections to sensitive parts.
Get some foreplay in
Massaging the perineum (or taint) as well as the areas around the anus can help boost anticipation and sexual arousal and make your G-spot stimulation experience infinitely more pleasurable. Talk to your partner, ask them how they feel, and what they like, and follow instructions. Communication is the key to prostate play.
A good session of foreplay or taking a hot shower can help you or your partner feel more relaxed before playing.
Don’t rush
Take it slow and ease it in gently. Penetration is always better when done deliberately and slowly regardless of whether you use a finger or toy.
Don’t be afraid to experiment
The prostate should feel like a round, walnut-sized piece of tissue. Once you’ve found the G-spot, rubbing it in a circular or upward and downward motion is a great way to begin. Try different strokes and speeds to find out what works for you or your partner.
At the same time, don’t forget the rest of your or your partner’s body. Stimulating the penis or testicles while massaging the G-spot can turn up the pleasure to a whole new level. So can massaging the perineum from both inside and outside the body, just like different sex positions can. Be bold and feel free to experiment safely.
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Always, always, ALWAYS wash your hands
Despite the wonders that the prostate can do for your sexual satisfaction, you must remember that it is still located inside the anus. And even if you see no fecal matter on your fingers or toys after stimulation, it’s always a good practice to wash your hands before touching other parts of your partner’s body to prevent bacteria or infections from happening.
The final word
Prostate stimulation isn’t necessarily for everyone, just as ass play or anal sex isn’t. It’s all a matter of taste. But don’t knock it ‘til you’ve tried it––you might just be missing out on some of the best sex of your life.
